tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65783561872885475062011-09-05T09:24:09.093-04:00A blog about the how tos, do and don't evers, and the wtf's of sexuality.cleofayenoreply@blogger.comBlogger1011100tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-51343745418849393122010-08-10T00:37:00.005-04:002010-08-10T01:39:32.115-04:00

(I know this video is about abuse more physical then what I went through, but the first time I watched it I seemed so familiar, that push/pull on/off feeling rang very true.)I've mentioned before my first boyfriend P. We were together for almost 3 years. I moved to the city with him. We lived together after we broke up for another 9 months. What I don't often tell people is that the relationship

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When I get the instant messages from people on the dating sight, I'm generally pretty open about writing this blog. I often field questions, but I honestly kind of like it, since I figure it allows me to maybe open some minds. When having one such conversation recently, a boy asked me what I thought about sex toys. I told him I thought positively, and that honestly I didn't really see how there

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I don't know about you guys, but I have a soundtrack for my life. I almost always have music playing in my head, and spend most of my life out in public insulated in a bubble of music that blots out the rest of the world. I also tend towards falling in love with one or two artists at a time, where I will listen to same album or albums for months, then move on to someone new. But each of the bands

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Like I said before, the decision to shave, trim, groom, what have you, is a personal one, and everyone gets to make that choice themselves, based on their own desires, not society or any one person's expectations. With that said, if you chose to take your pubic off or down, there are a multitude of ways to do so. All have their pros and cons, and I bounce back and forth between a lot of different

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File this one under cheesy and dumb.hey how are you?So I am guessing you love Its Always Sunny in Philadelphia?Yes, I live in Philly, but seriously, does that mean all the people in California love Californication? Sometimes, people are weird

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Back in the day.... and yes, I am using that phrase to reference the 1970's... Men were HAIRY. Just look at Burt up there. Frankly, I think he's sexy as hell. Yes, I admit that I prefer my male sexual partners to trim their public hair, but that's mainly because I enjoy sucking their balls, and it's easier to deep throat without 2 inches of hair going up my nose. However, other body hair is a

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Pubic hair is a fact of life. After puberty, everyone's got it, but watching most mainstream modern porn, you get the impression that women are completely hairless from the neck down. Even the landing strips and small patches that were big in the nineties have gone the way of completely bare vulvas (Random aside, my computer isn't recognizing vulvas, if that's not the pural what is? Vulvae? Vulvi

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Received the following instant message the other day.... I'm going to let it speak for itself. (Note, my profile says I like geeks)im a geek but im hung like a chinchilladealbreaker?Seriously?(P.S. I so want a chinchilla now.)

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Sex toy online store sent me the Bum Buddies Rear End Rapture Butt Plug in Intermediate by Adam and Eve Toys. Yeah, yeah, dumb name, I know, but give the toy a chance. When I got the toy, my heart fell a little bit. This is once again an instance of my eyes being bigger then my ass. I swear, I do read the specs on these toys, but in my head, they're always smaller then they are when they show up.

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I was reading through my blog reader, and an interesting post from Feminists with Female Sexual Disfunction. The author, K, wrote to both Durex (for some reason I can't find their non- latex, Avanti condoms on their website) and Lifestyles about the respective companies non latex condoms. Both companies replied that the lubricant used on both brands is silicone based. I hate the fact that I'm

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So there I am, sitting on the dating sight when there, in my matches in the side bar I see it. My stomach drops. It's B. The girl I dated, the girl I was pretty sure I was going to marry, the girl who dumped me because SHE'S STRAIGHT. She can only show up as one of my potential matches if she has on her profile that she likes women. I click over, I have to know, and yep, she's listed as bi.

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I've been planning a blog post about "coming out" to dates for a while now, but then something amazing happened. I actually got asked out on a date. This doesn't happen to me very often. I'm pretty shy in person and am generally oblivious that people are hitting on me until way too late. I have mild social anxiety, so I have a hard time introducing myself to people or initiating conversation with

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So in the course of my sexual escapades, I can't tell how many times some guy, in an attempt to get me to sleep with him, or sleep with him sooner has told me that he has a huge penis like this is supposed to be some magic phrase that makes me drop my pants and bend at the waist instantly. It's something that has always irritated me, because frankly, you're more likely to incite me with telling

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In the first batch of sex toys I was able to chose to review from Sextoy.com I also chose a set of ben wa balls by California Exotics. I'm slightly obsessed with Kegel muscles and exercising them. It's good for you in general, and I've been over that before so I won't go into too much detail, but I'm always looking for a good exerciser that I can use anywhere (not the kind you have to lay in bed

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So I made the switch not long after I put the blog on hiatus, that I wanted to stop looking for casual sex online and start looking for dates instead. Sadly, changing my profile to reflect this hasn't really affected my messages in the way you would think. I recently got a message from someone who's picture is of a cat, doesn't have pretty much any info on his profile except that his is a "well

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So I'm usually not one to react to other bloggers I see around the interwebs. Everyone is entitled to their opinion, and even if I think the opinion is hateful, who am I to change someone's mind. I just sit here at my computer and I blog MY opinion, and I hope that it can be a voice heard over the din for people who need it. However, I woke up this morning to a shit storm on my Twitter stream (by

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I signed up as a sex toy reviewer for Sextoy.com and I was really excited when I got the first list of sex toys for possible review. I was like a little kid in a candy store.... there were so many things to chose from. I the first thing I picked was this Clear Nubby Melon Crank by Don Wand. Ever since seeing a crank glass dildo on Real Sex 27 (which unfortunately I can't find a decent link to,

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As I said before, I started reviewing for Sextoy.com a while back. The shipments take a while to get to me, and by the time I'd gotten and used the first set of toys, I was offically in my funk. I didn't want to write. I had used them with the DFB, and I didn't want to think about him. I was just feeling down and not responding to the calls for upcoming toys available to review. All while sitting

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Hey everyone. I'm back. I'm still dealing with some of the things that brought me to the decision to close the blog, but all in all, I'm doing better. First I had outstanding reviews to write, and I've been hearing/reading some interesting things I've wanted to write about. I'm probably going to be staying away from my personal experiences for a while, and stick to reviews, advice, and discussing

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I'm sure you guys have noticed a distinct lack of posts on my part. I'm sorry. I been going through a lot lately, some of it good, some of it bad, but all of it comes together to mean that I'm going to have to put this blog on hiatus. I don't know for how long. I'll be posting a few outstanding reviews that are due, but I don't know if or when I'll be posting again. There's a lot that's going

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I'm a bit of an insominac sometimes and lately I've been up past 2 most nights. When I'm bored I like to troll around my dating site to pass the time. I've said before there is an IM feature. Last night I was on, talking to a boy who had written and interesting and thoughtful message to me and who happened to also be on super late, for about a hour. Over the course of that hour, I got 2 separate

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A while ago, the fab people at Wet sent me some products for review. I've said before I don't want this to become just a review site, so I promise to only post reviews between my regular updates. Anyway... I was fully expecting little single use packets. I was shocked to find small bottles and full sized products, but I appreciated it. The first product I tried was Wet's Total Body Shave in

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HNT Courtesy of Babe LincolnWelcome to e[lust] - The 10th edition! Your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #11? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar and

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What kind of sex blogger doesn't have sex? Well.... apparently this sex blogger. The sex in my life has been tapering down in frequency for the past 6 months or so, and with the ending of yet another fuck buddy relationship, I'm faced with the idea that I have no idea when the next time I have sex will be. This idea both freaks me out and frustrates me. I've mentioned before both the fact that I

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I know, I know, I've been a horrible blogger. I haven't written anything in like 2 weeks. I suck. I could give you my excuses: depression, a grad school app crisis, and a hateful computer that's been locking up when I try to open more then one internet tab at a time... but the fact is, it doesn't really matter does it? You don't come here for stories of my life, unless those stories take place

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I've mentioned before that I have a handy little box on the sidebar where you can submit questions to me through formspring. It didn't tell me I had any until the oldest had been sitting in my inbox for over a month. Sorry about that to anyone who asked a question. Since I don't post them to my twitter or blog, I figured, I'd repost them here, (with a few updates or changes as needed)1. Which

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I lost my virginity on Valentine's Day.... yes, I know, seriously, there was music, there were candles, I made a special dinner, it was something out of a movie, and considering I am not one to appreciate romance (when it's directed at me, I'm one romantic bitch as long as it is me doing it for other people), that's just a little ridiculous. In honor of such an occasion, I've decided to post my

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I jut wanted to make a note about what I've been saying in my love affair with porn entries. I've gotten comments talking about the unrealistic bodies and expectations mainstream porn has. I know all that. I'm a big girl, when I started having sex, I was wearing a size 22. No one looked like me. It didn't matter if they were fucking on screen or falling in love in some hollywood romantic comedy.

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Just letting anyone who sent me a formspring question that I didn't get the notification that I had any waiting until about 10 minutes ago, so I will be answering all of the questions and posting themas a blog entry in the next few days, I just wanted to tell everyone I wasn't ignoring them and I'll be sure to check it more often instead of actually relying on them to email me. For now (since I'm

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Growing up, my friends and I never talked about sex much. The closest we ever ame was a sleepover when I was 16 or so where a few of the girls admitted to masturbating, and where I revealed my adventures in babysitting with the spice channel. When I got to college, my friends were just as inexperienced and quiet about it as I was aside from occasional jokes. When I started being sexual with my

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HNT Courtesy of Having My Cake And Eating It TooWelcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #7? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site’s sidebar

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-33581323016974699802010-01-30T10:03:00.005-05:002010-01-30T13:34:05.353-05:00

I love porn, I do. I know that there are a lot of women out there who are don't like it, are intimidated by it, or don't want their significant others watching it. I've never been one of those women. However, my first exposure to porn didn't really foreshadow my love of it now. When I was 12 I started babysitting for a local family. They had one of those cable boxes that got every channel

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-54311462412995114022010-01-27T21:06:00.002-05:002010-01-27T21:09:03.957-05:00

So this is just really quick, anyone else find it just a little ridiculous to have marked on your profile that you are looking for casual sex and also think all forms of contraception are a sin? Are you planing on impregnating all you casual sex partners mr. super religious views man? Stay the fuck away from my vagina. That is all. Love you lots kiddies, this is cleofaye saying, if you don't know

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I try to keep this blog pretty neutral politics wise, and I do that because I think the sexual information I have is valuable to everyone, not just those that agree with my politics, and I would never want to scare off someone who wants to know about sex with my political ideology. That said, yes, this entry is going to be pro choice. If you leave because of that, just be sure to get information

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I think I've stated before that I don't really date so much, I'm a little gun shy from past experiences, and am doing the whole "focus on yourself for a while" thing, and to be honest, I'm generally pretty happy single. I have a good life, fab friends and all that, but I can't handle the lack of sex. So that means I have to go and look for sex partners. This is possibly one of my least favorite

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-53191311949789078262010-01-13T18:25:00.006-05:002010-01-14T18:05:31.696-05:00

Yes, I know, if you're a fan of sex blogs in general, I'm a little late to the party, but I have wanted to write about this for the past week and a half, and better late than never right? Apparently, the g spot doesn't exist. A bunch of British scientists got together, surveyed a bunch of twins, and decided that since they couldn't find a significant genetic link, it must not exist. I've

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Hey kiddies, I know posting has been a bit erratic, but I am keeping up with at least once a week as best as I can. I have my birthday coming up this weekend, and grad school applications, in Feb, but hopefully, after that everything should be back to normal and I'll be posting more often again. I also have a real post coming up for you soon, and many ideas on the back burner (which is exciting

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So hey, apparently we're in 2010, who knew? oh... that's what all those fireworks were on thursday, that explains a lot. So yes, it's a new year and in general, people like to use this time to reflect on the year that has been and the year to come and say their hopes and dreams, their regrets and triumphs. My life has changed a lot in the past year. This time last year I was dating the girl I

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-11127700650656946072010-01-05T00:50:00.001-05:002010-01-05T00:52:05.971-05:00

HNT Courtesy of Molls (via Eat The Cake NYC)Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you're looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you're going to find it here. Want to be included in e[lust] #5? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site's sidebar and

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Hey everyone. I plan on posting the obligatory recap of the past year/hopes for the comming year entry soon, but in the midst of an insane weekend, I wanted to give you some quick information I just learned. I'm stated before that I have a latex allergy. That leaves me the having to by more expensive, harder to find, and less versatile non latex condoms. I'm spending the weekend with a new

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So yeah, not letting me put the pictures in the last post.... so here is just a smathering of pics I took from the class, some of me, most of my roommate with different ties.

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So you all know I took bondage classes at Passional's Sexploratorium with the fantabulous Ms. Klawdya Rothschild. She was fantastic. She was patient, articulate, knew her shit, and had a fun personality that kept the two hour classes interesting. My only real complaint? She's fucking distracting. Look at this girl, she is hot, and frankly, her low cut shirt and tendency to lean over to check

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HNT Courtesy of 13MessagesWelcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you're looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you're going to find it here. Want to be included in the next edition? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in the site's sidebar and subscribe to the

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I'm just popping in before the the big rope bondage class post (with pictures of my sexy room mate tied up in his underwear!) to let you know, that in an attempt to make myself as accessible as possible I've set up a formspring account. You can submit questions anonymously or by logging in through the site, and you can do it right on that convenient little sidebar option. So ask me anything I

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So I posted yesterday that I had so much fun at my bondage classes. This is still true, but after taking the classes Friday and Saturday, I was even more excited for the class I had signed up for on Sunday. I have wanted to try suspension since I first saw my first example of Shibari over 5 years ago. The idea of just letting go and letting my body relax in the air. I've always had the desire to

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Hey everyone, I took a couple bondage classes this weekend (I have another one tomorrow.) I'll write everything up for next week with links and picks of my fabulous roommate letting me practice on him, but for now, just check out what I had to put myself back into when I got home from Self Bondage class.

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So in a post about titty fucking, there is one thing that has to be established right off the bat. I have big boobs. They used to be huge boobs, but I've lost some weight and switched birth control and they have shrunken down to a respectable D cup. I've heard titty fucking is possible with small boobs, but I have no idea. I've never been interested in doing it with a strap on, and I have no

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-89755350703996945152009-12-12T12:22:00.003-05:002009-12-12T13:44:42.566-05:00

So J, the poly girl that I occasionally play with, was roped into having a nookie party at her house. I will be reviewing the party itself soon, but for now, I'm reviewing one of the items I bought while there. I've been looking for a Kegel Exerciser for a while, but the ones I have seen in store were either too big for me, too small, or were the kind you were required to lie down and use (and

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-23270239860566263362009-12-12T01:59:00.000-05:002009-12-12T02:00:53.914-05:00

Photo courtesy of Twisted Monk (photo credit elizabethraab.com) Welcome to e[lust] - your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here. Want to be included in the next edition? Start with the rules, check out the schedule in

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-639667888594152192009-12-05T17:24:00.003-05:002009-12-05T18:01:50.267-05:00

I read about this holiday wishlist meme on Hey epiphora's site and thought it was a really nice idea. I'm working on granting a few of her wishes, and decided to create a list of my own. Step One- Make a post (public, friendslocked, filtered…whatever you’re comfortable with) to your LJ or Myspace or Blog. The important thing is to make sure these wishes are things you really, truly want.- If you

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-34681379075881962742009-12-04T21:24:00.003-05:002009-12-04T22:39:51.127-05:00

So it has become a running gag among my friends that I am "the worst lesbian ever." I'm inclined to agree, one since I don't really define as a lesbian, or really anything for that matter, and two because I will fully admit to having waaay too many men in my bed to call myself a self respecting lesbian. But in general the argument against my "lesbianism" runs as follows (keep in mind that yes,

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-27770622930768074242009-12-04T20:05:00.002-05:002009-12-04T20:59:50.894-05:00

Look at me being all techie. I made myself a little facebook company page so now, my lovely readers, you can become a fan on facebook. I'm not sure what exactly I'm going to be putting up on it yet, but I'll love some discussion forums or feedback from fans. If you join, drop me a line and tell me you're from the blog (I had like 85 fans before I put a single word on, so apparently no, becoming a

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-36308520614929908222009-12-01T23:22:00.004-05:002009-12-01T23:49:38.641-05:00

Yes, it's that time again when Ms. Cleofaye is a little overwhelmed with life and giving you some links to explore while I take a little bit of a break. First some quick admin updates. 1. I think you probably noticed, but I posted the first addition of e[lust]last week. It's similar to Sugasm, which I did before. I'm actually a volunteer and I help put it together. 2. Due to both grad school

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-52035755142675604082009-11-27T23:41:00.003-05:002009-11-28T01:24:10.833-05:00

Just a quick aside before we get started. I usually won't count an e[lust] post as one of my posts for the week, but with going home to my parent's house, things were a little crazy this week. I still love you all I assure you. I try to keep to my schedule of twice a week as best as I can and will continue to do so, but just to warn you, things may get slightly erratic around Christmas. Anyway...

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-73810962605232353272009-11-23T23:39:00.004-05:002009-11-24T00:52:04.894-05:00

Hey guys, I volunteered to help put together e[lust], a new blog roll for sex bloggers. I submitted as well and was voted one of the top picks! Here's the entire post, check some of them out, I really enjoyed the variety we got. So here it is, the premier addition of e[lust]! HNT Courtesy of Coy Pink Welcome to the first edition of e[lust]! Below is your source for inspirations of lust and

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-29718691677623624572009-11-21T13:01:00.002-05:002009-11-22T00:47:57.173-05:00

Yesterday (November 20th) was Transgender Day of Remembrance, to honor all those who have been killed for being gender variant in some way. All day I tried to write something about it. I really wanted to write an insightful, interesting, call to action blog. I wanted to inspire. But the fact is, I don't know what to say. I don't understand it. I get not understanding gender variance is something

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-91906242281070697752009-11-17T22:39:00.003-05:002009-11-17T22:49:29.563-05:00

Hey guys, life is a little crazy at the moment, so I'm a little strapped for time. I decided to cross post some of my entries from Cuntlove here because 1. I'm really proud of them and 2. I've really enjoyed some of the discussion they've created (Also even my best friend/roommate doesn't usually read my entries from there, so I can't expect you all to either). I'll be posting something original

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-66139387068124537962009-11-13T21:03:00.002-05:002009-11-14T00:22:05.184-05:00

I've talked briefly about bondage, mainly it's use in sensation play and mentioning the fact that I have experience with it, bu today we're going to get into the nuts and bolts of bondage. We're talking about materials. Before we talk about what to do with bondage, how to tie someone up, or all the fun safe word limit discussion that we'll have, first we have to know what we are working with.

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-27627697019815851392009-11-11T18:37:00.002-05:002009-11-11T20:43:07.687-05:00

I wrote earlier about being propositioned for a threesome via twitter. I said that I would keep you updated if I decided to go for it. I agreed at the time, but she lives in DC, and her boyfriend lived in NYC, so coordinating all of us getting together was difficult. She was going to be in the city this past weekend, and I had volunteered to come up for it about a month ago. However, she and her

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-55459088683274041302009-11-06T21:53:00.006-05:002009-11-08T12:34:56.915-05:00

Today I want to discuss a topic that I find to be a lot of fun, but can be really polarizing. Some people love feet. Some people are completely disgusted by feet. I am fine with both camps and have had sexual partners on both sides of the extreme. I have no dependency on foot worship as a sexual practice, but it can be something fun to add to the mix if both partners are into it. Ever since I was

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-1509388173855116242009-11-03T18:50:00.005-05:002009-11-03T21:04:20.230-05:00

I'm going to tell you guys that I'm not the only to have written about this subject. The lovely Olga at Cuntlove has done an extensive 8 part series on female ejaculation over at her site (and mine, in case you forget, I blog there every wed with posts about feminism, kinky sex, and how those things relate to each other. We've had some pretty interesting conversations and I'm really proud of my

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-38453087425189165162009-10-31T16:42:00.004-04:002009-11-03T19:55:00.736-05:00

It's halloween today kiddies, and I figured before I go out in way too slutty clothes and get a little schnockered, there would be no better time to talk about the role costumes can have in the bedroom. To be honest, I've never been a huge fan of costumes, I spent a whole lot of time getting comfortable with who I am, and god help the person who doesn't agree that I'm fab, cause they're never

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-44739516586613099732009-10-26T18:43:00.008-04:002009-10-29T00:57:35.349-04:00

So I've been thinking about this post for a while, and I know it's going to be on the longer side. There is a lot to discuss when talking about how to have anal sex, and I don't want to leave you without any important information. I don't want you to get lost in sea of never ending text, so I'm dividing this into things you need to know before, during, and after. So if you're with me so far,

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-67573337363705366222009-10-23T22:15:00.001-04:002009-10-24T11:53:05.525-04:00

(First of all kiddies, I want to let you know that I've put in paperwork to become and affiliate at passional. This will get me a discount there and I might be getting free toys to review at some point. I'm going to be talking about sex stores in general, but I will be praising passional as my home store. If, knowing I'm affiliated with them, you want to take what I say with a grain of salt, I

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-60330140103035608822009-10-20T21:46:00.006-04:002009-10-26T18:43:05.305-04:00

I've already said that I'm a big fan of things in my butt. P, the first ex, was very into butt play, knew what he was doing, and made me love it right along with him. I'm generally pretty paranoid, so I was very scared of sex for a long time. Butt sex was something that wouldn't get me pregnant, so it was much easier to convince me to give that up first (and yes, I got him tested before we did

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-66286662430554273332009-10-18T19:32:00.000-04:002009-10-18T19:30:41.862-04:00

We have multiple discussions of sex with boys, with one thing that's been missing. When you have sex with boys (and yes, I pretty much always call them boys because the fact is regardless of age I have never met a boy who was completely mature, not the first one, who was 12 years older then me with 2 kids, not even my dad)you have to deal with cum. First, some cum basics. When a guy orgasms, he

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-87632443604078457502009-10-17T12:03:00.002-04:002009-10-17T12:07:49.613-04:00

Sorry, kiddies, but the entry is going to be late today. I would apologize, but I'm getting ready for the beyond fantabulous Kate Bornstein to come speak at our local LGBT bookstore, Giovanni's room, which with the closing of Oscar Wilde in NYC is now the oldest LGBT store in the country. They are currently trying to raise funds to reconstruct an outside wall that was deemed unsafe, and costs

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-40801493133136065892009-10-12T19:24:00.003-04:002009-10-14T18:54:15.793-04:00

So you've picked out the perfect strap on... it's cute, it's hot, it's sexy, and it's all yours, and you can't wait to use it right? Right. But the question is, how do you want to use it. To talk about strap on sex, there is an important component we have to discuss. What about strap on sex appeals to you? Is it just a fun way to get off your partner hands free, or is there more to it for you?

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-91365541241542150482009-10-10T00:24:00.003-04:002009-10-10T00:30:52.553-04:00

So I have a uber flirty online persona. It's always been that way, it's just who I am. I have a twitter account.... I think most of you knew that already, since I think that's where a lot of my readers come from, but that's besides the point. The other day one of my twitter friends stated she was free for the weekend and needed to pick who to have sex with. I, of course, offered my services,

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-61400231142842653112009-10-10T00:11:00.006-04:002009-10-10T11:18:50.545-04:00

So national coming out day is sunday. I thought, in honor of this momentous occasion, I would talk a little about coming out, and leave a few closets of my own behind. I don't talk about myself too much in this blog. I mean sure, you guys probably know more about my vaginal anatomy and sexual bloopers than most of my ex's, but in terms of who I am, I tend to stay deliberately vague. There's a

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-21702818508491661762009-10-06T22:48:00.003-04:002009-10-06T23:04:17.523-04:00

Hey kiddies, I have a couple quick things that I need to let you know about. 1. I'm coming up on what will probably be some of the last regular how to blogs. There will be plenty of kinks to explore, but in terms of the basics, we're coming up on the end. That means the format will probably be changing a bit. I'm thinking that I'm going to start going to one kink or how to early in the week and a

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-1040218753783179212009-10-05T20:18:00.004-04:002009-10-06T21:28:17.261-04:00

Ok, so we've gone over the basics of vaginal sex, and a few positions, but we're not done yet, so off we go into the land of heterosexual vaginal sex for more positions and tips. Doggy style (Yes, I know the technical name for this is "rear entry" who uses that shit, Do you really think you're going to turn anyone on by getting close to their ear, lips parted seductively, and whispering "I want

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-91469043658690207722009-10-04T11:26:00.002-04:002009-10-05T23:44:43.794-04:00

I know I know, you're saying Cleofaye! A crappy links post? That's like those clip shows sitcoms put on to not have to write new content. Indeed it is kiddies, indeed it is. As per usual, heterosexual, vaginal sex has me staring at the screen blankly. I will power through by tomorrow night at the latest I promise, but here's something to hold you over until then. As you know, I scour the

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-57838492597107566232009-10-04T09:01:00.001-04:002009-10-04T09:10:02.437-04:00

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #175? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.This Week’s Picks5 things I have learned from customers last week at the adult store“Attractive men typically buy the

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-45595134689431002902009-10-02T20:17:00.008-04:002009-10-03T10:34:29.100-04:00

Today we're going to talk about my experiences with the Feeldoe a "strapless strap on" dildo. There are a lot of reasons I picked the feeldoe. 1. It's silicone (though it is available in acrylic as well). I've discussed the benefits of silicone before, but just to recap, here is why it's fantastic. They don't have phthalates (Although people say you can be exposed to them for a small amount of

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-34096732869627263192009-09-29T21:29:00.006-04:002009-10-26T18:41:04.376-04:00

Strap on sex is one of the hottest things I've ever done. There is something about the ability to fuck someone else that is completely appealing to me. I'm a little excited that it's going to be our topic of conversation for the next couple nights. First, to clarify, we're talking about girl on girl strap on sex here. We will talk about strap on sex with boys (pegging) but that's fodder for

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-79315547749892842992009-09-27T19:06:00.000-04:002009-09-28T19:58:28.911-04:00

(As per my last post, I consulted B before posting it, and she told me to "have a ball", so here's my infamous, how I broke a penis story)So I didn't intend for it to be insane anecdote that only happens to cleofaye week, but I've been planning this entry for weeks, and that whole riding crop phone number thing was just way too good not to blog about. Right now, we're going to have a quick

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-70302415868490132722009-09-27T00:51:00.002-04:002009-09-27T00:53:33.021-04:00

So I had a post all ready for tonight, but I'm having second thoughts about posting it. I need to talk to the other person involved, I think before I put it out there. I'm sorry for the delay, I just don't want to hurt anyone in my attempt to educate the masses. Love you kiddies, and I will be posting the entry as soon as I converse with the ex it involves, and if it's not before then, I will

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-86743698925695880132009-09-25T17:55:00.006-04:002009-09-25T18:31:58.690-04:00

So I'm just popping in for a quick story, I will be posting a longer normal post either today or tomorrow, but I came home from work today and had an experience I had to share. I've been having problems with my roof leaking pretty much since I moved in. They come, they fix it, it works for a while, then a month later it's dripping again. I've gotten used to people in my room. I always come home

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-64324400075935054342009-09-22T19:31:00.006-04:002009-09-23T23:26:55.502-04:00

So we've talked about vaginal sex and what it means and what consequences it can have a length, so it's time to talk about the fun part. Sex can be one of the most fun things to do in bed. There's tons of variety and a range of attitudes to explore. Sex can be dirty (in a good way), kinky, and rough, or it can be slow, sensual and incredibly intimate. I will admit, I held off a really long time

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-13896809511988367742009-09-18T20:47:00.004-04:002009-09-19T09:37:16.478-04:00

So it's time to talk about a girl's best friend, the Kegel muscles. The pubococcygeus (PC) muscles' benefits were discovered by Dr. Arnold Kegel. However, most doctors don't talk about them except in cases of childbirth and urinary incontinence. This, honestly, is a travesty. Regular exercise of the Kegel muscle can lead to stronger, easier to achieve orgasms.The PC muscles control the pelvic

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-69503125880739586352009-09-16T00:25:00.011-04:002009-09-16T11:14:31.205-04:00

Ok, here it is, The first of what is going to be at least 2 possibly more entries on plain old vaginal sex. Honestly, I've been dreading this entry for weeks. I couldn't figure out why until tonight. Everyone talks about vag sex. It's the default that everyone thinks of when someone says the word "sex." It's the end all and be all of every hetero-normative, male orgasm centric, completely crap

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-31705486310006821102009-09-11T22:45:00.007-04:002009-09-12T15:46:52.896-04:00

In my never ending attempts to keep this blog, relevant, interesting, and fun to write, I'm introducing a new category into my Thurs/Fri wild card spot, psychosexual. It's going to be a discussion on psychology and sexuality, how they affect each other, and how they are used or misused. I don't talk about myself too much on this blog (you know, outside of my sexual proclivities), but I'm

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-53835630022775895802009-09-09T22:24:00.002-04:002009-09-09T22:35:30.582-04:00

This is a little off my usual routine, but I've been spending the past hour or so, that was supposed to be on writing, horking my guts up for no good reason that I can figure out. I'll be back up and posting my regular snarky sex commentary soon, but I didn't want to leave you guys completely empty handed. I've been collecting the best sex links from around the net.... and here they are. For the

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-68750790691259670572009-09-06T20:55:00.003-04:002009-09-06T21:06:15.278-04:00

So guys, I didn't win the blogger vote for this week's sugasm, but I'm posting the links to the winners as promised. This Week’s PicksA Hot Fuck in a Parking Lot“We got more daring and soon clothes were a hindrance to our insistent hands.”I Think I’d Rather Misbehave“I bet the secret thrill of this has your cock already climbing to attention.”The Painter“He says something, small talk, and I

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-43428220463433540252009-09-05T20:30:00.003-04:002009-09-05T20:36:02.429-04:00

Just a quick warning to everyone. I've been trying to get the word out on the blog a bit, and I've joined a sex blog group called "Sugasm" that takes everyone's best posts for the week, rates them, picks 3 winners then sends out the links for all the blogs involved. I thought I would give it a shot and submitted the Anal play entry. To be involved I'm required to post the results with all the

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-20786218471388877282009-09-04T23:31:00.004-04:002009-09-05T00:58:12.481-04:00

I have a confession to make up front. I am not a fan of vibration. I think I'm the only woman I know who would me more then happy without a vibrator ever coming near my pussy, ever. However, I know that I am the extreme exception, and not the rule. Most women love vibration and prefer it to any other kind of sensation when masturbating. With that said, I've enjoyed playing with vibration with

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-77222393976051121472009-09-01T21:13:00.003-04:002009-09-01T22:45:43.861-04:00

So the obvious progression from fingering someone's ass is licking their ass, however, I'm aware that rimming is not a common practice, at least in the heterosexual community. I've also found that rimming is pretty polarizing. Most people either love the way it feels, or hate it. I will admit that I come down on the hating it side of the fence. I'm always willing to give it another try with

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-65299420280458020182009-08-28T20:49:00.006-04:002009-08-29T00:36:43.423-04:00

Lube is one of the most important things (the most important being protection of all sorts of course) to have in your "drawer;" you know the one by your bed with all your sexual goodies in it. It can be your best friend, but shopping for it can be overwhelming. There are dozens of options out there, and it can be hard to know what you're looking for. Here's a breakdown of the pros and cons of

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-63106171602466512882009-08-25T21:17:00.004-04:002009-08-26T01:19:01.795-04:00

So.... We've officially started, I think I just crossed the line away from vanilla sex for the first time since starting this blog. It was only a matter of time, I pride myself on being one kinky bitch, but I just want to make sure you're all prepared. Are you buckled in? Because it's going to be a fun ride. Personally, anal (which, by the by, is one of my least favorite words in the english

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-76850084337972128632009-08-20T23:22:00.007-04:002009-08-21T00:57:02.144-04:00

Don't worry, don't freak out. I'm not changing my tune. I'm still the same sex lovin' girl you've come to expect. And lord knows I'm not really one to talk about abstinence, but the fact is I wanted to put some ideas out there before moving on to the up coming how to blogs on penetrative sex. I think that abstinence as a concept and especially as a school curriculum is a little (or a lot)

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-58829699973847968852009-08-17T23:12:00.009-04:002009-08-20T23:24:01.691-04:00

Tehe! Do you love that title? I'm totally proud of it. It makes me giggle, and as I'm trying to impart to all my loving readers out there (or at least the vast audience of loving readers that I write to in my head) sex is fun! Don't take it, or yourself too seriously. So... on to the good stuff. We're here to talk about eating pussy. Something that takes a bit of finesse, a lot of practice, and a

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-63813104923341716762009-08-13T23:42:00.004-04:002009-08-13T23:50:04.164-04:00

Now, every so often, along with kick ass general sex tips and sex related reviews, I'm going to talk about things slightly outside of vanilla. I'm a big advocate of trying everything you're comfortable with, and providing anyone who wants to try any information they need to make themselves comfortable. These are going to be the "spice it up series." I'm starting out pretty basic, and as time goes

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-87577209338448854102009-08-10T18:45:00.005-04:002009-10-26T18:41:31.235-04:00

Blowjobs.... Now we're moving into territory that is much more comfortable for me. I have an oral fixation. I like to eat, I like to chew gum, suck on mints, I pretty much hate having an empty mouth, something my sexual partners generally benefit from. I'm what's called a top, which means I find getting other people off more satisfying then getting off. (weird I know, but yes we exist I swear),

cleofayenoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6578356187288547506.post-88123012779421603662009-08-06T16:38:00.003-04:002009-08-20T23:25:27.037-04:00

Women notoriously hate their own pussies. It's a problem. They're self conscious and inhibited when it comes to being seen, or god forbid being gone down on. This is RIDICULOUS, but understandable. I used to be one of those women myself. If it's not obvious already, I've gotten over it. I'm going to try to keep this entry brief, but it's a subject close to my heart. For my senior thesis, I wrote

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Ok, so we've covered the basics of handjobs, I feel like you all know what's next, Pussy!!!! But first a note on terminology. I'm all for using clinical terms and such, but I personally just don't like the words vulva and vagina, they're too clinical for me. There's no fun in saying the word vagina. I just reminds me of those horrible high school health classes in which the only thing a girl's

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(After the start of a blog post, which gave me a lot to think about, I decided that as well as all the fun we will have here, with the how to's, the reviews, and the kink 101's, there will be the occasional completely serious and, in my opinion, important posts. I'm going to label these PSA's, so you'll know before hand, and feel free to skip them if that's not what you're here for, but I do

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Ok, now we're going to be talking about penises. Not my favorite subject, but one I'm pretty well versed in. However, today, we're talking about handjobs. Like kissing, this isn't really my forte, but I have done it. I don't touch any penis I wouldn't put in my mouth (or various other orifices), so I tend to skip the handjob phase of things, but that's just me. I have had some fun experiences

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So.... My first sex toy review, I'm so excited. I figured there was no better way to launch my sex toy reviews then by reviewing the first sex toy I ever purchased, a glass dildo. This was many years ago ( about 2004 or there abouts) when I bought it, and despite my best effort and google skills, I haven't been able to locate the exact model I bought. The closest thing I found was here. I got my

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So.... This is a how to blog after all, so here I am, in all my glory to share what I've learned about making out, which I'm defining as fooling around that involves everything above the waste. First I'll disclose that I'm am no where near an expert on this part of sex. I'll be much more comfortable as we get to more x rated activities. I never really just made out with people. I've kissed the

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